6 Ways To Use A Vibrator During Sex

Our tips to share the pleasure of the vibe!

Our tips to share the pleasure of the vibe!

Even in this enlightened age, many think of vibrators as something which should be hidden in a bottom drawer and only used when alone. But adding a vibrator to couple sex can really turn up the heat in a relationship, and contrary to popular belief, it’s not just the woman who gets pleasure from using a vibe.

Here are our tips to use a vibrator during sex!

Masturbate Like No-One’s Watching

Masturbate in front of him

There are few things sexier than a woman who knows what she likes in the bedroom. Confidence is a huge turn on, so have your partner sit where he can look but not touch, and then masturbate in front of your partner by putting your chosen toy to good use. Don’t confine yourself to your clitoris or vagina, run the vibe all over your body, finding your erogenous zones and spend time on your breasts and nipples, stomach, inner thighs, and anywhere else you can reach.

=> Check out the Frenchman, a soft and flexible vibrating tongue to explore erogenous zones.

The Best Kind of Threesome

The other kind of threesome - blogpost

Many women ask the question ‘can I use a vibrator with my partner?’ and the answer is a resounding ‘yes!’ If your partner is lacking in confidence, be tactful when inviting this wonderful third party into the bed, but once you do you’ll both wonder why you didn’t do it sooner! It’s no secret that relatively few women can achieve orgasm by penetration alone, so give the big ‘O’ a helping hand by using a vibe on your clitoris while your partner is inside you. Not only does it feel sensational to you, but he will be able to feel the vibrations which will add a whole new dimension to intercourse.

=> Invite the Fireman, an elegant clit vibrator, to join you and your partner for a sensual ménage à trois

Have your Cake and Eat it Too

Enhance oral sex by having your partner use a vibrator on you

Image credits: @tastyinspiration

Oral sex is wonderful, we all know that. But it can be made even better if your partner uses a vibrator inside you while he stimulates your clitoris with his tongue (leaving your hands free to grip the headboard!). Men rarely have the opportunity to actually watch penetration (unless he’s a contortionist!) so visually this is a huge turn on for him, as well as for you.

=> The Millionaire, an iconic and perfectly shaped vibrator, is the perfect toy to try this!

Toys are for Sharing

Use toys on your partner

Image credits: Zulily

While vibrators are made primarily for women, men don’t have to miss out. A man’s perineum is incredibly sensitive, and having it stimulated with a vibrator at the same time as receiving oral sex will drive him crazy. Be creative, and show him how good it feels!

=> Try this with the Surfer, a compact and powerful external vibrator made of the smoothest silicone

Playing Catch-Up

Partner using a vibrator on you for you to climax

Faking an orgasm does no-one any favor, so don’t! If you don’t come during sex, let him finish what he started by clitorally stimulating you with a vibrator. Having your partner do it means he’s still the one bringing you to a climax, so he won’t feel left out and you won’t feel cheated out of coming.

=> Have the Tennis Coach join you for the extra time

It’s Good to Talk…and Even Better to Listen

Phone sex made better

Busy lives mean that sometimes we have to rely on our phones (and no we don’t mean in vibration mode, although that does sound interesting!) so spice up a phone call by mutually masturbating. Hearing your partner coming is incredibly intimate, and using a vibrator works in more ways than one. Women generally get there a lot quicker using a sex toy, and the sound of it buzzing will immediately give your partner a picture in his mind, even more so if you have used a vibe together before.

Coming together on the phone can be as satisfying as coming together in person. Of course, it might not be convenient to talk on the phone, which is when a strategically timed picture message can come in handy! They say a picture paints a thousand words, so you can imagine the story running through his mind when he receives a photo of you and your vibe just before his big meeting!

 

Used as a complementary aid as opposed to the main event, a vibrator can be enjoyed by men as much as women. By introducing a vibrator, couples can add a whole new dimension to their lovemaking, and get a real buzz from doing so. Find the one for you with a fun quiz here!

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