Your cart - 0 items

02 Aug 2023 (Last updated 05 Dec 2025)

How I masturbate: Eleanor, 34.

Smile Makers Author
How I masturbate: Eleanor, 34.
Featured
Solo sex 1 min read

A month in the life of Eleanor shows how privacy, environment, and mood influence the ease and frequency of self-pleasure, highlighting masturbation as a personal and wellness-focused practice.

  • Masturbation frequency is influenced by privacy and living situation.
  • Solo travel or business trips can create ideal opportunities for self-pleasure.
  • Lack of sex toys requires creativity with hands or imagination.
  • Hormone levels and libido affect how often pleasure is sought.
  • Reflecting on masturbation helps track personal sexual wellness.
  • Sharing diaries can normalize conversations about self-pleasure and inspire others.

A month in the masturbation life of Eleanor, a 34-year-old who finds that pleasure comes a lot easier with some peace and quiet.

Living situation: Solo.

Relationship status: Single, never had a relationship.

Pronouns: She/her

What sexual orientation best fits you right now? Heterosexual.

How many sex toys do you own? One, The Romantic from Smile Makers.

Do you ever use lube during masturbation? Never.

How would you describe your libido atm? Horny most of the time.

Growing up, what kind of convos did you have about sex? None, it was never discussed.

At what age do you first remember masturbating? 13-14 years old.

Eleanor's masturbation diary.

Week one.

This week I had to move back to my mom's place temporarily so that meant no privacy and no self-pleasure. Also, I wasn't horny as much, luckily.

Week two.

I went on a business trip for 4 days, which meant alone in hotel room and plenty of time for masturbation. Unfortunately, I didn't bring my only toy, so I had to be creative with my fingers.

Week three.

Back home again meant no privacy and lots of horniness. Can't wait to go back to my place and pleasuring myself whenever I can.

Week four.

Another business trip and all the self-pleasure I can get. I was so horny this week that I could have stayed in my hotel room all day. 

Masturbation diaries by the Smile Makers' community are here to talk about what we rarely talk about... how we masturbate! We hope to inspire and prove that each and every one of us is writing our very own sexual story. We also adore that it's a great time to reflect on our monthly pleasure, and really take note of how it impacts our wellness!

Want to share yours? Let us know what a month of masturbating (or not!) looked like for you, and if we feature yours, we'll send you Smile Makers' goodie as a token of our appreciation for inspiring us all.

 

Follow @SmileMakersCollection for feel-good sexual wellness content. And when you're ready to explore, check out our colorful collection of vibrators — perfect for beginners and beyond. Or head to SmileMakersCollection.com to find the best vibrators for you.
products/DTC_Products_Ballerina__2x_1.png files/DTC_Products_GS_Billionaire__2x_69fb6657-ff3e-4c32-8d73-63f1e6672ad7.png files/DTC_Products_GS_Firefighter__2x_89baf786-2231-4463-bbc4-4e4f21849ff6.png

Want 15% off your first order?

Sign up today to have the first of
many treats sent straight to your
inbox.