3 things a dermatologist wants you to know about orgasms and skin.
What do vibrators and skincare have in common? Both can be shopped at the world's biggest beauty retailers, like Sephora and Ulta. So, we thought we’d put the two together and answer a question that comes back time and time again – can orgasms give us better skin?
Well, firstly, let’s consider more than just orgasms! We all know that climaxing isn’t the be-all and end-all of pleasure for us vulva owners; the journey feels just as good, right?
Secondly, what if we also consider sexual wellness in the same way that we do skincare? Searching for the right tools, building the perfect routine, and making time for it – be it every morning and every night, or the one weekend pamper session we all look forward to.
The sexcare / skincare routine.
When it really comes down to it, after all our research, it’s very much this routine – or practice – of making time for self-loving that truly contributes to better skin. The regularity of taking a break to focus on ourselves creates a domino effect of positive consequences. The more we work on our wellness, the more effective results we see. The less stressed we are, the happier our skin can be.
We overheard presenter and author Candice Brathwaite talking about her skincare regime on an episode of Grazia UK’s Beauty Life Lessons podcast:
‘It’s like 15 minutes of just sheer bliss. And, I’ve seen how other people respond to that and, I’m like, is it because the products are working or is it because I’m having a moment of positivity with my own face?’
As we nodded along, we felt inspired – well yeah, we thought, this makes complete sense! Take this idea and put it to our question... do orgasms improve our skin? The end product doesn’t directly impact it per se, but the fact we are having regular moments of pleasure positivity with ourselves and our bodies does.
A dermatologist on sexual pleasure and our skin.
So, we asked dermatologist Dr Hadley King about the skinfluence that more time for self-loving and pleasure can have, and according to her there’s three things we should know:
- Sexual pleasure, solo or with a partner, causes a release of oxytocin, which lowers cortisol levels (the stress hormone) and leads to better sleep. Both of which lead to a decrease in inflammation and helps the skin repair itself! See what we mean about a domino effect?
- More frequent sexual activity, including masturbation, can affect hormones in a good way. Not only are there more happy hormones like dopamine and serotonin in our bodies, but it also delays the drop in estrogen that occurs during peri-menopause – something that can cause up to a 30% drop in collagen, the protein that helps encourage the renewal of cells to keep the elasticity and plumpness of skin.
- The immediate glowing results we see on our skin after sex are from vasodilation of superficial blood vessels in the skin. This leads to increased blood flow, which gives our skin a rosy look and may even help stimulate collagen production!
Whilst these skin benefits are indirect results of sex, other beauty experts are breaking taboos to include pleasure in their beauty regime.
Can I use a vibrator on my face?
LA-based make-up artist Yvette Evora inspired us when she revealed her biggest skincare prep hack,
"When I first carried a vibrator in my kit, I felt embarrassed, but now I take it out without fear. Everyone loves it! I’ve shared it with so many friends. I have many MUA followers that have tried it and love it too."
Yvette uses The Surfer mini vibrator on models faces before shoots to wake up the skin and provide a gentle, depuffing massage. The Surfer's shape and size make it perfect for sweeping across the face, with a good level of intensities to pick from.
"I’m not joking when I say it works, I’ve carried a vibrator in my makeup kit for over a year and when I saw you guys launched in Sephora I immediately placed an order. It only takes about two to three minutes, but it snatches the face instantly and helps give a glow.”"
So, there we have it. It’s not in the one-off pamper sessions where we see the most results; in skincare or sexual pleasure. It’s in the routine, and time that we take to show ourselves, faces and bodies a little (or a lot) of love!
