The lipstick vibrator.

Absolutely! The Whisperer was co-created with mothers from the Mumsnet community, but it’s designed for anyone with a clitoris looking to rediscover pleasure. The delicate design makes it great for gentle exploration after a change in sensitivity, scarring or surgery, or a break in stimulation – whatever the reason.

There are many types of vibrators for clit stimulation. Mini vibrators – or bullet vibrators – are the perfect way to upgrade from finger masturbation, making them a great intro to sex toys!

Lipstick vibes, like The Whisperer, are even more discreet and compact.

The Whisperer is designed for clitoral stimulation. We also fully encourage using the tip to explore other erogenous zones, such as the rest of the vulva, butt cheeks, and nipples, or even to tickle the vaginal entrance. But if you’re looking for penetration, we recommend toys like The Billionaire, The Tennis Pro, or The Romantic.

Start with you. Masturbation is the best way to reconnect with your sexual self and figure out how you like to be touched – which is forever changing, btw! Most vulva owners enjoy external stimulation and often reach orgasm this way. The Whisperer is so soft and squishy, you can use it to massage the clit while it’s switched off. And you can even transition the lipstick vibrator from solo sex to partner sex when the timing feels right.

Add a lick of lube to The Whisperer’s soft, curved head then press gently on the clitoris. If you’re feeling super sensitive, add a layer of clothing between yourself and The Whisperer. Play with pressure and pulsation modes – or even pair with penetrative sex if it feels good.