Flowers and chocolate are always a good idea, and we will NEVER tell otherwise! But once the chocolates are eaten and the flowers have blossomed, we would like to keep the love (and self-love!) vibe alive a bit longer!
So, we have listed four self-love ideas to make Valentine’s day a long-lasting one!
1. Put things in words: write yourself a Valentine’s day card.
In our daily life, we often pay more attention to the negative voice in our head pointing to things we are not doing well enough, but we don’t pause to appreciate all the things we actually do right and even great!
So, for Valentine’s Day, list 5 things you love about yourself and read it out loud. Even better, put it on a nice card you can keep!
And you can do the same with your significant other! List 5 things you love about your partner and read it to them. Then invite them to list 5 things they live about themselves. Isn’t self-love a great gift to get them?
2. Create your personal soundtrack.
This Valentine’s Day, treat yourself to the amazing ability to become Wonder Woman just by pressing the Play button!
We all have these songs that make us feel like the world is ours to grab, and life is a party to enjoy. Song that make us feel great, sexy, powerful, unstoppable. List yours and create your playlist for the moments you need the right background music!
3. Book a trip you have been dreaming of.
Travels are wonderful experiences, because they make us grow. We anticipate them before we go, we take a step back on our lives when we are there, and we cherish the memories after. It does not have to be a month-long trip to the other side of the world. It can be a sweet escape to break the routine and create breathing space!
Whether you are in a relationship or not at the moment, why not spend Valentine’s Day giving yourself something that will make your richer?
4. Take time to explore your body for a memorable Valentine’s day.
This Valentine’s Day, how about you give yourself the joy of discovering new ways to pleasure? It is a rewarding and long-lasting gift!
Whether you are in a relationship or not, doing this with a partner or not, forget about reaching an orgasm at all cost. Just feel yourself or ask your significant other to simply touch you differently. Go for new places, new ways, new moves or even new add-ons (lubricant, massage oil, sex toys…). And see what you like, what you don’t. Remember, you are not travelling to a given destination, you are exploring a whole new world, without any prejudice!