This month’s masturbation diary is short and sweet from Eleanor, focusing on her favorite masturbation technique, doubling up. Read how two vibes can be better than one, especially when you’re seeking an intense orgasm that’s both clitoral and vaginal (a la the blended orgasm).
Living situation: Solo in France
Relationship status: Solo
Pronouns: She/her
What sexual orientation best fits you right now? Hetero.
How many sex toys do you own? Two, The Firefighter and The Romantic!
Do you ever use lube during masturbation? Never.
What do you call masturbation? No name for it.
How would you describe your libido at the moment? Horny a lot.
Growing up, what kind of convos did you have about sex? None.
At what age do you first remember masturbating? 12
Eleanor's masturbation diary.
Week one.
It’s The Romantic x The Firefighter to the rescue whenever I’m so horny that fingers won’t do much. I like to combine both (and only) toys I own for the best and most satisfying pleasure. I like to start with The Romantic on the lowest setting, and then slowly introduce The Firefighter to my clit. The orgasmic buildup is amazing and I come so hard that my legs shake for some time.
Week two.
When I need a quick satisfaction, I would use The Firefighter on my clit on the lowest setting while imagining my ex boss licking me until I come.
Week three.
This week was no masturbation for me, I was too tired to even use the toys.
Week four.
I’m back with doubling my toys and masturbating every day whenever I can. This was a really horny week for me.
The doubling-up technique is all about stimulating two different spots at the same time - think clitoral and vaginal, vaginal and anal, nipples and vulval… There are countless erogenous pairings to explore. Using two toys at once can add layers of sensation that lead to more intense, more fulfilling orgasms - especially when the clitoris is involved! That’s exactly where the idea of the rabbit vibrator came from, for example.
That said, dual stimulation isn’t just about using two vibes (or a 2-in-1 toy). You can absolutely try the doubling-up method with your hands and fingers, too. When it comes to solo play, many of us enjoy a pick ’n’ mix approach, there’s no one way to vibe (or masturbate!).
Masturbation diaries by the Smile Makers' community are here to discuss what we rarely discuss... how we masturbate! We hope to inspire and prove that every one of us is writing our very own sexual story. We also adore that it's a great time to reflect on our monthly pleasure and note how it impacts our wellness!
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